So
Grace is hosting this delightful wedding dance along. And, well, I took the music at our wedding very seriously.
How seriously you may ask?
Here have a look at my Do Not Play List:
Do Not Play:
Artists:
Any song by The Beatles or a former Beatle, especially Imagine. I cannot stress this point enough. No covers. No originals. No post Beatles. No Beatles. None.
Jamie Foxx
The Fray (Not that they are particularly dance worthy but even still.)
Rod Stewart
Specific Songs We Don’t Want to Hear (in any rendition):
Over the Rainbow
Unchained Melody
Picture (Kid Rock)
Smooth (Rob Thomas)
Maggie May
Loving You
So Happy Together
I love You More Today than Yesterday
Chicken Dance
Shout
At Last
Brown Eyed Girl
Celebration
Are You Going to be my Girl (Jets)
Proud Mary
Have I Told You Lately that I Love You
I Will Survive
Wonderful World
Every Breath You Take
You Light Up My Life
Close to You
We've Only Just Begun
My Heart Will Go On ,
Open Arms
Can't Smile Without You
The Wind Beneath My Wings
Hopelessly Devoted to You
Endless Love
Everything I do, I do it for you
Truly Madly Deeply
Redneck Woman
Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy
Say Hey (I Love You)
I Like to Move It
All Summer Long (Kid Rock)
Yep.
I had three requirements for our first dance:
- It couldn't be a song I dislike (duh)
- It couldn't be cheesy
- It couldn't be too popular
Only thing is... did you see my do not play list? I dislike a lot.
I don't like The Beatles. I do not judge you for your music tastes but they give me a headache and I choose to not listen to them. You absolutely can. I just try to avoid them. And it was my wedding. Not time for a headache. In fairness, I do like "Got My Mind Set On You" by George Harrison but that seemed more complicated than stating "The Beatles or anything by a former Beatle"
And I do not have brown eyes, making "Brown Eyed Girl" inappropriate for my wedding. Also a few songs/artists (Jamie Foxx) were added by Husband so I am not all crazy I swear.
And also in fairness my "Must Play List" involved only 6 songs
- Our First Dance Song
- Father/Daughter Dance "My Girl" by The Temptations
- First Group Dance "Gonna Make You Sweat (Everybody Dance Now)" by C+C Music Factory
- My favorite song: "Crazy Beautiful" by Hanson (Judge Away)
- Our song "Chasing Cars" by Snow Patrol
- Our favorite cheesy love song "The Inspiration" by Chicago
As you can see from that list, we have an "our song" and we did dance to it, we just wanted it to be for us and not with 200 people staring at us while we danced to it. So for Chasing Cars AND The Inspiration we still danced with each other, happily and in love they just weren't our first dance song.
Which led me to years of looking for the right song. Yes years. We had a 2 year, 3 month engagement and right after picking the date and the place of our wedding I got to work on the first dance.
I finally landed on
"You Got Me" by Colbie Caillat.
This is a long weird story, but right after we got engaged "Bubbly" was super popular and I remember this crystal clear. I was driving home from work for lunch (normal occurance at my summer job) and I was driving down my street and about to turn into the cul-de-sac and I thought, "I love her voice and this song. Maybe it could be our song? Nah... too slow."
And I picked all kinds of songs. And then they weren't right. But then I picked. Finally. It was approved. It was glorious. I am all about the lyrics, and certain parts of songs that I love didn't work for me because of one lyric. But "You Got Me" worked. It even starts out saying "I like you." Which is something we say a lot!
Then as a little break from grad school life, Husband who was Fiance back then, took me to see Letters to Juliet. And I was excited. Until the opening note of the movie hit. It was "You Got Me" by Colbie Caillat. Of course it was. I believe I stammered something along the lines of "If this song suddenly becomes popular I will seriously flip out."
It didn't. Or maybe it did. But I never heard it on the radio so I was fairly content with life at that point. So we went and got ourselves married. Pretended to eat some food and danced.
Then we tore up the dance floor because the songs of the summer were "In My Head" by Jason Derulo and "Dynamite" by Taio Cruz. And I LOVE me some Top 40!
And our DJ did end up playing the beginning 3 seconds of Proud Mary before my dad shut that down. (Actually it was my parent's only request for the Do Not Play List... I funny enough have no problem with that song.) And now in 2014 I also see he played "I Like to Move It" which I think is a dumb song but I also remember nobody danced to it anyway so... who cares?
My mother of course thought all my music was ghetto but I swear it wasn't. I swear.
And thus ends the saga of Madeline's Wedding First Dance Song.